Would you believe me if I told you that one change could transform the quality of your life? That if you do what I’m about to tell you it will increase your chances of success, make you happier, help you make friends and may even help you live a longer, healthier life? That other people might want to be around you and your boss (or clients) might trust you more?
No, I’m not going to ask you to send me three easy payments of $99.95. I’m going to give it to you for free and if it works for you, just tell everybody you know to do the same. Seriously, I don’t want anything out of this except for your life to be better.
Seriously, that’s it.
I don’t have a problem with venting occasionally or recognizing difficulties. But move on. Focus on opportunities. Find ways to make things better. Become a fixer instead of a complainer. Change the situation or change your situation.
But stop complaining.
When you do, people will begin to see you differently. You’ll begin to see yourself differently. You’ll approach life differently and you’ll have a better attitude. And people will want to be around you.
I’d rather be around an ugly person with a beautiful attitude than a beautiful person with an ugly attitude.
Here’s the Call to Action
Will you do that for yourself?
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