One of the most difficult things in nearly any group is communication. Whether a marriage or a country, communication is tough. I don’t know about your church, but at ours (I’m not a pastor but I am in leadership), communication is tough.
We have difficulty making sure everybody is aware of upcoming events. It’s sometimes hard to cast vision. And we aren’t always aware of the needs in the congregation.
Note: As we look at open communication, don’t forget that there are some things that should be kept private. Don’t let the ease of communication on social media push you into inappropriate territory.
Here are just a few ideas on how electronic social media might help facilitate communication (that’s really what it does best). Add your suggestions in the comments.
- Make your church bulletin into an email
Mail Chimp, for example, offers free service to Churches and other non-profits.
Don’t let anybody fool you. Email is the your largest social network. And it’s the most open social network.
- Send important updates and reminders by Twitter
I think of Twitter as SMS conversation, quotes, and headlines. People share wisdom (or what they think might be wisdom), news, dialog about it. The beauty of it is that users can choose whether to get updates from a particular user as a text message on their cell phones.
Think about it for a second – if you are willing to only send updates about the things your congregation is interested in, your Church has a free reminder system for anybody who wants to sign up. Simply create a Twitter account and then encourage your people to “text: follow [your username] to 40404.”
Certainly, you might want to explain what’s going on. But it’s really simple. It gives you the ability to send short messages via free text and each person is still in control of whether they get a text message.
- Casting Vision and Teaching
Much of the job of a spiritual leader is to encourage others to engage their entire lives in God. Leaders certainly serve in practical, hands-on ways. But leaders also must teach, cast vision, and encourage others gladly seek after the glory of God.
Blogs make a great addition for a church or pastor. But I’d encourage you not to simply reprint Sunday’s sermon. Rather, use a blog for additional teaching, for added depth, or to encourage people to think deeply.
In my opinion, the best use of a blog and a related Twitter account (set up for this purpose) is as an extension of the Sunday sermon. To keep it in the hearts and minds of the parishioners for an entire week so that it becomes deeply planted in their hearts.
Here’s just one example of how I might see this fleshed out. (Have more suggestions? Put them in the comments.)
Sunday Sermon: The Prodigal Son
Tuesday Blog: Deeper discussion of the characters in the story – the two sons and the Father (with Twitter notification).
Thursday Twitter: Ask the question: Who do you relate to – older son, prodigal son, or father? (with link to Tuesday’s blog)
Friday Music: Find a great piece of music on YouTube (or other music source), post it on your blog with a short write-up, and send out a Tweet.
Again, electronic social media is no substitute for the deep relationships that come from sharing your life with others over the course of years. But there are some ways it can help build relationships. I’ll go on to those in a minute. But before I do that, I’d say that if many of your parishioners are on a particular social site (Facebook is popular at our church right now), that is where you should probably focus your initial relationship-building.
- Getting to know you
Social websites such as Facebook create an interesting phenomenon that isn’t really possible in “real life.” It’s possible to keep relationships somewhat at a distance. While this is not good in terms of developing lasting relationships, it does give somebody who is a little gun-shy the opportunity to warm up to you.
While I know that you are wonderful, there are some people who have been hurt. And very often, those people need a chance to know that you’re trustworthy and gentle before they can open their hearts and lives to you. Electronic social media can give them that chance.
- Knowing more
People often post pictures of recent events on social websites. They might make a comment about what’s going on in their lives. They may update their status to say “I just burned 2,000 calories on Wii Fit.”
And then when you see them next, you might have the chance to say, “Congratulations! You totally rocked it out on the Wii Fit last week.” Of course, catching the occasional note or status update might also give you the chance to say, “Hey brother, sounds like you’re going through a rough time. I’d love to be there for you. Can we get together?”
There are more
Obviously, this list is not all-inclusive. I haven’t even talked about Tweeting Bible verses, making videos, or posting the audio of your sermons online.
What about you?
Do you think any of these ideas might help you?
What ideas do you have? Would you share them with me?
How can we use electronic media to grow in God’s grace?