Today’s post is a special edition “Follow Friday Extravaganza” requested by Aaron.
I follow every one of these blogs and tweeters, and, though I may not always agree with everything that’s written or how it’s presented, they always encourage, challenge, and inspire me. I think they’ll do the same for you.
There are LOTS of great blogs and tweeters out there. If you’ve found other killer blogs or tweeters, why not leave a recommendation in the comments?
Michael’s Chairman of the Board at Thomas Nelson Publishers and writes consistently about intentional leadership. In a word, his posts are amazing.
Productivity is an interesting beast. It’s quite possible to get a lot done very quickly and still be unproductive. Or at least fail to be usefully productive.
I’m sure this doesn’t apply to you, but it happens to my make-believe friend Billy Bob. On some make-believe Saturday he grabs his number two pencil and a Big Chief yellow pad and makes a list.
- Ride the moped out to get groceries
- Get squirrel feed
- Groom the iguana
- Brush my teeth
- Play catch with the kids
It looks like Billy Bob has a great day ahead of him. But if he goes out and spends the entire day chasing squirrels on his moped , he would have been better off if his list had been: Continue reading
I don’t know about you, but I like to be very intentional with the time I spend on Facebook. Well, really I like to be intentional about how I spend my time on any of the social media tools I use.
I don’t want to log in and spend hours browsing – after all, you can’t have fondue on Facebook. I do want to log in, do what I want to do, read what I want to read, and get out.
One of the ways I do that is by organizing my friends into lists so that I can keep up with people based on the nature of our friendship (friends from High School, friends from Church, colleagues and networking “friendlies“). Then, when I want to see what my Church friends are doing, I’ll check that list.
Note: I also use lists to control who can see me as “online” for Facebook chat.
I Realized it was Missing
Or at least I did until the recent Facebook layout change. In fact, the new Facebook home was enough of a redesign that I forgot that I couldn’t find my old filters. Until today.
Facebook is a pretty cool thing. I’m on Facebook and I like it. It’s great for sharing photos and stories and such. And for keeping up with friends. But does it make us better friends?
I don’t know
I’m talking to you – the “regular” people who use Facebook and email and Twitter to keep up with friends and family. Not the people who are marketing their business or trying to network for their next sale. Just the people who use it personally.
Do you think it makes you a better friend?
I mean, it’s great to catch up. It’s super-easy to “like” a comment or status update. You can use Facebook to begin to know people in a socially non-threatening way. But does it make you a better friend?
I know there have been times that I’ve “liked” and commented away and felt really connected to my friends and family. That is, until I’m asked a question about something that I “liked” or commented and I realize I can’t even remember the comment, much less the context.
How about you?
Has that ever happened to you?
Do you think Facebook makes you a better friend?
Have I been a good friend to you on or through or in spite of Facebook?
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Technology is a cool thing. I almost can’t imagine what my life would be like if I didn’t have a cell phone, email, Facebook, Twitter, and the ability to telecommute.
I am very blessed that I live where and when I do. I’m happy about it. In fact, I still want an iPad, even though they’re $500 or more. And I want an Android phone even though it’ll cost me $30 more per month just for a data plan.
But there’s something I can’t do through technology. I can’t actually show up over technology. I can’t have fondue on Facebook. I can’t actually hug somebody or shake a hand.
Why Show Up?